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cfavreau — Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:42:48 -0000

Jenn, I'm so glad you brought up the issue of burn out, which I didn't even touch on in my post.

Thanks for bringing up the Universal Law of Reciprocity. It's a topic I want to learn more about!

As usual Jenn, thanks so much for your insights.

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cfavreau — Mon, 26 Nov 2007 13:40:02 -0000

Teresa, it's so interesting when you say "you have not wasted your time and effort, doing business for someone who does NOT value your skills and knowledge."

My coaching client finally put her foot down with one of her "clients" who was blatantly taking advantage of her. Ends up she was wasting time and effort on someone who really did not value her expertise. She "fired" him and her time and energy are finally freed up for paying clients who appreciate her hard work.

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Jenn Givler — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 14:09:50 -0000

I totally agree. AND - you risk burning out. As coaches, we are constantly giving to our clients - when you give and give and give without receiving - you're heading straight for burn-out.

There is a Universal Law called the law of reciprocity. It states that when we give, we must receive something equal in return so that we too may be replenished... money is a really good example of this - it's our Universally accepted exchange.

Thanks for bringing this to the fore Cristina - it's such an important topic!

Re: http://blog.cristinafavreau.com/2007/11/dont-give-yourself-away/

Teresa Morrow — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 12:54:07 -0000

Cristina,

All I have to say is...you are so right!

It does look desperate when a business owner especially a entrepreneur GIVES AWAY their services for free continuously. It is hard to gain credibility for yourself when all your clients are not paying you. That just makes your business a hobby and that is something we are not striving for.

What makes what you do NOT important enough to these people not to be able to pay for your services? If they do not have the money at the time, move on to market to those people who do have the money. They may not be your ideal client at the moment, however, somewhere down the road, they may turn into your ideal client. However, you have not wasted your time and effort, doing business for someone who does NOT value your skills and knowledge.

I just recently wrote a post that is along the same lines as this one...if you are interested in reading my post titled,

Thanks Cristina for this great post!

Teresa Morrow
Key Business Partners
www.keybusinesspartners.com</a>

Re: http://blog.cristinafavreau.com/2007/11/dont-give-yourself-away/

Jacki Hollywood Brown — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 16:59:37 -0000

You are SO right!